OK, had a short interruption in service when I setup the new router.  Between Cox reassigning my IP and issues with the port forwarding, I couldn't get everything synced up.  Got it now so everything should resume as normal. 

I optimized my server a bit to get this running a bit faster as well.  Let's see how that works out.  I will plan an upgrade for it later this year, when I have some time to work on it.